Thursday, May 09, 2019

Poetry Friday: Youth and Mother's Day

This week I read the story about Patroclus getting killed with my eighth graders. I also read this poem published in 2019, and its references to Patroclus and Achilles and Thetis (Achilles' mother) remind me of one of the reasons I love teaching about the Trojan War; these stories are so timeless.

Thetis was a goddess, so the fact that she was immortal heightened her sense of the mortality of her son Achilles, but a sense of mortality is common to all parents. This week we saw yet another school shooting to remind us of that, plus of course all the other news stories that remind us, week after week after week, all year long.

Happy Mother's Day!


Youth
by Tom Sleigh
Smelling of sweet resin the Aleppo pines’
shadows grow taller by the hour. Two identical
twin boys chase each other through the shadows,
the one who’s ten minutes older yelling,
I’m gonna kill you while the younger one
laughs, Kill me, kill me if you can!
Day by day these teatime mortars
keep pecking at the blast wall that the boys
have grown so used to they just keep right on playing.
If they weren’t here in front of me, I’d find them
hard to imagine, just as I sometimes find
my own twin brother hard to imagine.
I’m supposed to be doing a story
on soldiers, what they do to keep from
being frightened, but all I can think about
is how Tim would chase me or I’d chase him
and we’d yell, I’m gonna kill you, just like
these brothers do, so alive in their bodies,
just as Tim who is so alive will one day not be:
will it be me or him who first dies?
But I came here to do a story on soldiers
and how they keep watching out for death
and manage to fight and die without going crazy—
the boys squat down to look at ants climbing
through corrugated bark, the wavering antennae
tapping up and down the tree reminding me
of the soldier across the barracks sitting
still inside himself, listening to his nerves
while his eyes peer out at something I can’t see—
when Achilles’ immortal mother came
to her grieving son, knowing he would soon
die, and gave him his armor and kept the worms
from the wounds of his dead friend, Patroclus, she,
a goddess, knew she wouldn’t be allowed
to keep those same worms from her son’s body.

I know I’m not his father, he’s not my son,
but he looks so young, young enough to be
my son—sitting on his bunk, watching out for death,
trying to fight and die without going crazy, he
reaches for his rifle, breaks it down,
dust cover, spring, bolt carrier with piston,
wiping it all down with a rag and oil,
cleaning it for the second time this hour
as shadows shifting through the pines
bury him and the little boys and Tim
and me in non-metaphorical, real life darkness
where I’m supposed to be doing a story.
Here's the poem, along with links to some of Tom Sleigh's other work. 
This post contains a poem I wrote about Thetis a few years ago.

And here's today's roundup.

12 comments:

Irene Latham said...

Ruth, this poem was kind of hard for me to read... brave choice. Happy Mother's Day to you. xo

Linda B said...

It was a sad week for us in Denver-one more young man gone, no matter his heroism which was great, still gone. Fitting well for mothers, Ruth. We all do try to shield our children as much as we are able, send them out into the world, trusting. Enjoy your Mother's Day with your wonderful family.

Linda said...

Like Linda said, it's been a sad week with the loss of more young lives. This poem is new to me, but it is so true even in these times. Happy Mother's Day, Ruth!

Michelle Heidenrich Barnes said...

So powerful. When will the madness end?

Linda Mitchell said...

Oh, my. What a poem....what a story. I recently listened to Circe by Madeline Miller. It had all kinds of good, bad and ugly things of the days of the gods, demi-gods and mortals. I loved it. I'm reminded of it in this. Have a great weekend. Happy Mother's Day to you!

Kay said...

What a poem. It has been a hard week for too many mothers. Thank you for sharing it.

Cheriee Weichel said...

This poem left me feeling melancholy, and heartbroken for all the children and parents in America who must worry regularly about their children. I've been reading a biography of Buffy Saint Marie and listening to her music. The Universal Soldier pairs well with this poem I think.

Liz Steinglass said...

Wow. What an incredible poem. I will share this one with my family later today.

Molly Hogan said...

This is such a powerful poem and one that will linger with me. Thank you for introducing me to Tom Sleigh.

Mary Lee said...

This post gives me goosebumps! All the connections are here -- ancient stories, modern stories, timeless stories, mothers' day.

Your students are so lucky to have you for a teacher (and a "school mom")!

Michelle Kogan said...

Powerful timely poem. I especially like your sharing your earlier poem "Thetis," Sadly they fit well together, thanks for all Ruth.

author amok said...

This is such a powerful poem. The refrain of "I'm supposed to be doing a story" makes me think of how hard it must be for reporters to wear their own armor and not get emotionally involved in the lives of people they are covering.