Saturday, April 23, 2022

NPM Day 23: Happy Blog Birthday to Me!

Today my blog is 16 years old! The gift for the sixteenth anniversary is candles, so here's a candle poem to celebrate.


Candles

by Carl Dennis

 

If on your grandmother's birthday you burn a candle

To honor her memory, you might think of burning an extra

To honor the memory of someone who never met her,

A man who may have come to the town she lived in

Looking for work and never found it.

Picture him taking a stroll one morning,

After a month of grief with the want ads,

To refresh himself in the park before moving on.

Suppose he notices on the gravel path the shards

Of a green glass bottle that your grandmother,

Then still a girl, will be destined to step on

When she wanders barefoot away from her school picnic 

If he doesn't stoop down and scoop the mess up

With the want-ad section and carry it to a trash can.


For you to burn a candle for him

You needn't suppose the cut would be a deep one,

Just deep enough to keep her at home

The night of the hay ride when she meets Helen,

Who is soon to become her dearest friend,

Whose brother George, thirty years later,

Helps your grandfather with a loan so his shoe store

Doesn't go under in the Great Depression

And his son, your father, is able to stay in school

Where his love of learning is fanned into flames,

A love he labors, later, to kindle in you.

 

How grateful you are for your father's efforts 

Is shown by the candles you've burned for him.

But today, for a change, why not a candle 

For the man whose name is unknown to you?

Take a moment to wonder whether he died at home

With friends and family or alone on the road,

On the look-out for no one to sit at his bedside

And hold his hand, the very hand

It's time for you to imagine holding.


Source 

 


1 Irene at Live Your Poem
2 Donna Smith at Mainely Write
3 Catherine Flynn at Reading to the Core
4 Mary Lee at A(nother) Year of Reading
5 Buffy at Buffy Silverman
6 Linda at A Word Edgewise
7 Kim Johnson at Common Threads
8 Rose Cappelli at Imagine the Possibilities
9 Carol Varsalona at Beyond Literacy Link
10 Linda Baie at Teacher Dance
11 Janet Fagal at Reflections on the Teche
12 Jone at Jone Rush MacCulloch
13 Karin Fisher-Golton at Still in Awe
14 Denise Krebs at Dare to Care
15 Carol Labuzzetta at The Apples in my Orchard
16 Heidi Mordhorst at My Juicy Little Universe
17 Ruth at There is no such thing as a God-forsaken Town
18 Patricia at Reverie
19 Christie at Wondering and Wandering
20 Robyn Hood Black at Life on the Deckle Edge
21 Kevin at Dog Trax
22 Margaret at Reflections on the Teche
23 Leigh Anne at A Day in the Life
24 Marcie Atkins
25 Marilyn Garcia
26 JoAnn Early Macken
27 Janice at Salt City Verse
28 Tabatha at The Opposite of Indifference
29 Karen Eastlund at Karen’s Got a Blog
30 Michelle Kogan Painting, Illustration, & Writing

3 comments:

Linda B said...

Happy blog birthday, Ruth. I ran out of time yesterday but am happy that I came back to you. We really are all in this together, aren't we? Happy Sunday!

Robyn Hood Black said...

Happy blog birthday, Ruth! I especially enjoyed this poem after a brief visit today to see my nearly 95-year-old neighbor, home with hospice care. She has family and friends looking after her in addition to professional care, but this poem reminds us that others do not have these hands and hearts to help them at the end. Hope your coming week is full of light!

Linda Mitchell said...

Wheeeeee! Happy Blog-Birthday! I love the poem about lighting a candle for the unknown man. I want to write like THAT! WOwsa.